August 6, 2026
I know a couple who are swingers. They are very good friends of mine. We share a lot of the same interests and we talk quite a bit.
They joined a swingers’ club a few years ago. Since then, they have been trying to get me to attend with them so I could see what goes on. I’ve always been a little hesitant just because I don’t want to get into the swinger scene. I have a married man/boyfriend as it is and don’t really want to be entangled in more. But the more they talked, the more curious I became. I finally agreed that I would go with them.
In order to attend this certain club, you have to be a member. However, they do have one-night-only memberships where you don’t have to pay the full fee but only pay for one night. You have to fill out a rather lengthy application and submit photos of your drivers license. It seems that they vet you pretty seriously as they do background checks on each individual. As a single female with a sponsor (my friends), I was approved pretty quickly. On the website, it does says that single males are usually put on a waitlist simply because there are so many who want to join. I believe they have to pay a little more to join also.
Then on top of this membership fee, there is an event fee. Each night has a theme. The night I attended was Fetish Night. They have that theme once a month. A lot of their agenda is full of the other rotating events such as Pride Night (LGBTQ), The Bullpen (for single males – gay and straight), Karaoke Wednesdays, Game Night, and more. There are other special nights that show up every so often too.
I have to admit I was quite nervous. I don’t know why. I mean, I have been to porn conventions and more. I think I was a bit intimidated by the thought of a lot of the younger, skinnier, sexier people.
However, once I stepped into the place, that nervousness vanished.
Once I had got up to the window, the woman taking tickets was absolutely wonderful. She explained a lot, and then had me step to the side until one of the other employees could take me for a tour of the place. The tour included all three levels of this older building. Each level had its own space.
The first level included the dance floor and the exhibition area. Since this was fet night, there was a lot of items that would be used for BDSM. There was a Saint Andrews Cross, which really intrigued me, poles for pole dancing, tables for massage and even fireplay in the form of fire cupping, and a lot of other instruments.
On that level is also a kitchen area. Alcohol was not sold there, but you were allowed to bring in your own if you wished. They had commercial-sized coolers for you to store your drinks. They also provided soda drinks and a slushie machine. There were cups in various colors that you would take so patrons would know what level of kink you are at. They also gave you corresponding wristbands at the window, so people would have an idea. I stuck with black, which was for first-timers.
The second floor was pretty much a lounge area. However, there were five beds set up in a bunk-like formation. These beds were for open play and yes, they did get used. During the night I saw the largest of the beds being used for at least a five-person gangbang.
The lounge area actually overlooked the lower floor, so we spent a lot of time there just watching people go by and enjoying their play while talking amongst ourselves.
The third floor is where it got more serious. These were the private rooms for any kind of play you would want. There was a type of secret code to the doors also. If the door was wide open, you were free to enter and join in (with the couple’s consent). If the door was cracked, you were allowed to watch through the crack but not enter. If the door was wide open, but there was a chain in the doorway you were allowed to look, but not enter. If the door was closed, that was totally off-limits.
Also on this floor was a little room for some other play. There was an exam chair, but I didn’t see it in use at any time. There was also another table where I later saw a woman totally immeresed in sensory play. She was blindfolded but was being whipped and beaten. Other implements used were a Whartenberg Wheel, fur mittens, and hot wax. She was quite happy and sucked off the two Doms with her during her session.
There is also a Gloryhole there on the third floor. I believe there was one somewhere else, but I don’t remember where it was at. Later in the evening, my male friend decided he wanted to try out the Gloryhole. So I accompanied up and he sat in the Gloryhole while I tried to get people for him go service. Finally one brave young man unzipped his pants and stuck his cock right into the glory hole, where my friend was. I seem to enjoy it, and I know that my friend did because he kept exclaiming how happy he was he had that experience. He thanked me profusely for being his carnival Barker.
There was also an outdoor patio area which was quite spacious. It was a nice place to just relax. I did meet one guy out there I was intrigued by but I didn’t approach because I did not know if I would ever come back to this place again. As you all know, I am not one that can do just a hook up. I’m very demisexual.
My friends introduced me to a lot of their own friends, but I didn’t really find anybody I was interested in. I was very happy to see that there were all sorts of body types, ages and sexualities there. I felt very comfortable and yeah, I would go back again.
We did use one of the private rooms. My friend, his wife and I went into a room where he got naked on the bed and his wife, and I basically beat the crap out of him. He really does love humiliation and pain. This was nothing new to me as I have “tortured” him a few times. He brought his own toys, which was what a lot of the patrons did.
They told me that the room we had chosen was actually what they call the video room. There is a camera in there that records the shenanigans going on and broadcasts it to various monitors around the club. However, this function was not working that evening.
One thing I do want to say is that I was surprised by how quickly all the beds got cleaned up and stripped down after use. The staff was definitely trained well and kept up on everything beautifully. There were towels (which the staff asked to be laid down on the bed if there is going to be any sexual activity), condoms, and lube stationed at various places throughout the entire building.
There is also a set of locker rooms for women to change into costume or to just get out of their clothing entirely. I did not see any fully nude people, but I did see a lot of topless and I did see a lot of women just with Shibari ropes around their torsos. I dressed in a short-ish skirt and an open-weave knitted harness crop top with no underwear. My friend’s wife wore a short, sexy nightie. I do have a good idea for what I will wear next time. There were guys in harnesses are most of the men seem to be dressed in just normal streetwear.
There weren’t a lot of lockers available, but the patrons seemed fine to just leave their belongings out in the open in this room. That tells me that there’s a lot of trust in this community.
Of course, no photography was allowed but there was a small area outside the locker room where a selfie-station was set up. We did take advantage of that.
All in all, it was nothing what I would have thought it was. I was not man-handled, I was not disrespected, nor did I see any of that going on around me. The club is very very strict on consent. No means no. If you are caught disrespecting each other or trying to push your agenda onto somebody, you will be ejected, and your membership will be removed. There’s a good number of staff there also watching out for everybody.
I am happy to say I am now a full-fledged member of this club for a year. I don’t know how often I will get there as this club is a couple hours away from me, but I knew I will get there a couple more times. I even paid extra to be part of a couple in case my guy would ever come this way to visit. I know he would love this club. And for the first time, he actually told me he was jealous of me.
I really hope he can come someday because I would love to be able to share this with him
Morgan Destera 