TOY TEST – Pink Punch Sunset Mushroom Vibrator

May 25, 2023

This product was quite a bit better than the last Pink Punch toy I tried, but it still needs some work.

Again, it is a very aesthetically pleasing toy. It’s soft to the touch and comes in a case that also acts as a charger. The colors are fun, as is the shape/design of it. You really can’t go wrong if you’re looking for something to display. Pink Punch really is innovative with the look of their toys. The packaging is engaging and yet discreet, and comes with a nice overlay that can be removed to just have the art to display.

But again, function is something they really need to work on more.

The size and shape of this toy is great. I liked holding it as it fir in my palm nicely hand has a soft touch skin. I liked the shape as it really could be pinpointed to a certain area like your clit or anus. It also has a cute little lanyard that can be attached and removed so you don’t lose it in bed (or inside you).

However, again, the motor is lacking in power. It just isn’t strong enough to really get me off. Another disadvantage was the control button. It is in a very awkward spot on the end of the stem and is adjacent to – and right up against – the fin made to attach the lanyard to. This makes turning power on and off, and circling through the settings, hard to do. The button is also very stiff and my thumb ached trying to push it hard enough to try every sequence.

But it is a decent toy and one I’m sure a lot of people will enjoy. I will use it again, but it is not one of my go-to implements. Pink Punch needs to really work on functionality over design as ultimately that’s what people want more. Make the motor a bit better and design it so that the controls are easier to access and use.

Pink Punch, I am available for consultation at any point during the design process. 😉

You can view the full test video on my Pornhub channel – https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=644c40556945d

You can purchase the Sunset Mushroom here – https://www.pinkpunch.com/products/pinkpunch-sunset-mashroom-vibrator Use promo code DESTERA at check-out for extra savings!

GUEST BLOG – Kylie LuverGurl’s Kinky Commentary part one

May 10, 2023

I’ve known Kylie for close to forty years ever since we met in college. We became friends before reconnecting over social media last year. Now she is going through her life’s journey like I did about eight years ago – becoming her truer and happier (if somewhat kinky and sex-crazed) authentic self.

(CW/TW – transgender)

Nudity, Nakedness, and My Love of Gay Sex

More than being fully nude, there is an intrinsically sexual aspect to partial nudity. This is in part the appeal of lingerie, where the general rule is the skimpier the better (and the more expensive). By logical extension, clothing that leaves the genitals of the wearer exposed is an improvement over even the most revealing lingerie. 

For example, as I write this article, I am only wearing a normal length shirt (that only comes to about my waist). Being clothed from the waist up makes me more aware of the fact that I am nude below that. That I am wearing a cock ring and have a butt plug inserted in what I like to refer to as “my pussi” only enhances that awareness; I can intensely feel the fabric of my chair against my bare buttocks and my balls every time I shift in my seat. Likewise, I can feel every breeze of either the heat or air conditioning on my cock, and it helps keep my libido turbo-charged.

At a point in time not too long ago, I dressed normally all the time,even though I work from home, and wore normal sweats to sleep in. I will not go into the events that forced a shift in my mindset; suffice it to say that it was first mind-shatteringly horrifying and then liberating. 

The first thing to go was my underwear. I know that freeballing is popular among guys, but it was not something I had often done before now. But recently, left to my own devices, I started to spend almost all my time in my sleepwear. After all, my job is results oriented and my employers almost never interact with me other than via email. The next change of attire was to begin wearing just an oversized and ridiculously comfortable sleep shirt to wear almost constantly. Given its length, losing the sleep pants was both swift and inevitable.  

Other than a few hours every week, I have not worn underwear since December (it is now early May). Around the house, I never wear pants; preferring to go naked below the waist; this either coincided or help exacerbate a surge in my libido. In those months, I have cruised the internet almost incessantly (I won’t name the accrual website but it is similar in purpose to Grindr) looking and finding other men to hook up with, usually meeting at least one guy a week, and multiple men a few weeks. In most cases, they come to my house. If the hookup is after 5:00, I usually skip putting on more than sweat pants and a loose shirt, since we plan on getting naked as quickly as possible. With a few repeats and well after hours, I simply crack the door open, go into the bedroom, and am already naked and playing with myself when they arrive.

I mean, why not? We’re not looking for romance or a date; we are two men who want to have unabashed gay sex. But to get back on topic: even after I have been fucked so thoroughly I can barely walk (and that has happened), I still only throw my shirt back on, and luxuriate in the afterglow of the act… and am usually immediately cruising for more fun. 

Would I be so obsessed if I dressed in a normal fashion and were not always being reminded that I have a cock, balls, and a pussi? Possibly not, but being perpetually semi-naked keeps me revved up for sex: either with a partner or solo. 

Being naked and free is the natural state for human beings; being clothed and repressed is anything but natural, or healthy. Embracing a state of constant semi-nakedness has allowed me to express and accept, happily, that I am at heart a cock-hungry homosexual slut.

And what is more important than happiness and self-acceptance? 

Right now, I am going to finish this article and get dressed to go for a walk. No, I will not be putting on underwear; yes, I will be leaving the butt-plug in my pussi, and yes, as soon as I get home, I will be stripping back down to nothing but my sleep shirt. Because that is even more erotic to me than simply stripping until I am fully naked.

Until next time, Kisses, Kylie!

TOY TEST – Sohimi Bendable G-Spot Vibrator

May 1, 2023

It is kind of appropriate that I write 5his review in May 1st because this toy made me call out “MAY DAY” is surrender. 🤤

Okay, so maybe not that drastic, but this toy is seriously fun and effective.

The length and shape of this toy makes insertion uncomplicated and the bend makes it easy to find that elusive G-Spot. It has 10 different modes to satisfy any personality. The control button is easily accessible also, being on the very end of the toy itself.

Because of its length, it can be inserted deeply, anally or vaginally. This is a great toy for anal because it does not have a huge girth but still has the power to be felt. Guys can use it to find their prostate fairly easily.

You can see how much I liked it

Overall I rate this toy a 4.7 out of 5 stars. It is versatile and comfortable. It is also easy to clean, being made of silicone, and comes with a concealing bag for storage. The push-pin wire also makes it a breeze to charge.

You can purchase the item here – https://www.sohimi.com/products/g-spot-vibrator-elf?_pos=34&_sid=ca936c831&_ss=r – be sure to use promo code DESTERA at checkout for extra savings!

You can view my full test on my Pornhub here – https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=6439ae595a90f

TOY TEST – PinkPunch PEACHU Clit Sucker

April 2, 2023

I was very impressed when I got this toy in the mail. The colors on the box were beautiful. There was a slipcase on top of the box itself which added extra graphics. Even the feel of the case was pleasing. I opened the box to reveal a nicely segmented package. As I started to remove everything, I was struck by how well designed this item was. I couldn’t wait to try it out!

However, my love affair was short lived.

It’s a gorgeous toy, don’t get me wrong. It’s soft like the fruit it resembles and the team certainly took its time making sure every detail was correct. I love touching it. And the dome feature for re-charging is absolutely innovative! It consists of magnetic charger, which I usually do not like, but this is designed so the toy sits in a molded space just for it and the dome is plugged to the outlet, not the toy itself. It’s a great idea, but one that takes up a lot of space on the counter.

As stated I do like the look and feel of this toy, but once I started using it, my enthusiasm waned. It is very cumbersome to hold. It is hard to grip, and seemed hard to hold in one position. It was even harder to find the sucker’s opening and attach it to the right spot of my body.

Even worse, the motor is totally inaccurate for the size toy that it is. As large as this peach is – and it is hard to hold in my hand and use the buttons as well, it could definitely have a bigger motor. It did not have enough power to suck hard and did not stay on my clit. The shape also made it hard to find my clit.

This may be a good toy for beginners, but it barely got me excited, much less got me off in any way. The control button is located on the bottom of the toy and is in a very awkward spot. There are also just not enough variations in pattern or strength to make it a good toy for me.

I give this toy a 2 out of 5 stars. I love the charging station, despite its dimensions, and I love the look and touch, but it is really lacking in power and variety. I really wish some company would allow me to test these toys BEFORE they market them so maybe I could help them produce satisfactory products.

You can purchase PEACHU here –https://www.pinkpunch.com/collections/frontpage/products/pink-punch-peachu-sucking-vibrator. Use promo code DESTERA at checkout to save 30%!

Review video can be found on my Pornhub –https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=64263e98e0f84

The Situation

February 22, 2023

The past few weeks have been totally exhausting for me. After an almost 30 year battle with his disease, my ex finally succumbed.

He was 63 years old.

In the end, he died due to complications of Covid in pneumonia, as well as his autoimmune disease.

Even more mind-boggling is how a few members of his family I have gone off the deep end because of this. I have been threatened, I have been yelled at, and our son’s legitimacy was even brought into question. (Damn people, I was a good Mormon girl back then… and I NEVER slept around on him. Even after our divorce it was a good 3 years before I slept with anyone else.) I am pretty sure this all came about because they found out I have a porn account.

In the end, the family did not visit although I tried to update them and tell them things were imminent. On the day he died, a few family members said they were going to come, but when he passed in the late afternoon, they hadn’t even started the journey.

All because they had no idea of his true condition. None of them had even visited him in at least a year. And when they talked to him on the phone, he sugar-coated things to make it appear all good and sunny.

I just wanted to update you about the situation. I will be back soon. I am dealing with cleaning out his belongings as well as his remains. It has been four days and they have been unable to follow his wishes due to the certain family members interfering, and totally disrespecting their brother.

Oh I also had a GoFundMe to help with the expenses, but I had to delete it due to complaints.

I’ll be back soon. Thank you!