GUEST BLOG – Kylie LuverGurl’s Kinky Commentary Part Two

June 14, 2023

Cock Sizes and Sissy Pussies

Ask most men about what is most important when it comes to their bodies, and they will admit (after looking around to make sure no one can hear) that cock size is really important. Men have been fascinated by cocks and male nudity for a significant portion of history. 

One need only do a middling amount of research: the symbol for good luck in Rome? A winged penis. One of the more popular deities in both Roman and Greek mythology? Priapus, possessed of a schlong so huge he needed a wheelbarrow to haul it around in. the popularity of codpieces in European fashion? Purpose? To show off how much junk the owner was hauling around in their pantaloons. 

Even today, in Japan, they have the Kanamara Matsuri, an annual festival celebrating man’s real best friend.  Iceland has the Phallological Museum… the Louvre of Love Members. And less amusingly, entire wars have been fought as proxies for establishing dominance of penis size. If you, dear reader, doubt my word… just read up on Lyndon Johnson’s rationale why the USA absolutely had to get involved in the fiasco in Vietnam. 

So yeah, to most males, a big cock is kinda a big deal. 

But let’s talk about sissies. A  large cock is not important in what passes for sissy culture, and many do not even like to call their “manhood” by that name, preferring to call it their clit, their pussy stick, or their clitty (I personally call mine my clitty). To a sissy, a large cock is not only irrelevant; some take pride on having a “clitty” small enough to easily tuck into a pair of skimpy panties. But what exactly is a sissy?

A quick definition might be in order here. Think of sissies as cross-dressers, with a highly sexual bent. Whereas cross-dressers are often just men who prefer women’s clothing and may even identify as heterosexual, sissies dress and identify as women for sexual purposes and  are usually homosexual. 

Sissies revel in acting like hyper-sexualized bimbos. Typical wardrobes include deliciously tight and revealing clothes, baby doll dresses, and, of course, outfits like the eponymous french maid’s outfits… often without any undergarments in that last case. To a sissy, being able to show off their ass is of paramount importance. Not surprisingly, almost all sissies are exclusively “bottoms.”

Where some gay men are “tops” (giving anal sex) or “versatile,”sissies tend to only crave receiving anal sex, or, in the vernacular of the gay subculture, “bottoms.” Sissies often do not even call like to it their ass, preferring more feminine slang like calling it their pussy or even their cunt.  To a good sissy, their main sexual organ is their pussy, much like many “GG’s” consider their pussy to be theirs.

Sissies thus tend to be more proud about how deep or tight their pussies are, and how much pleasure they can give “real men” when they are fucking them. 

And speaking from experience, I have used this boast more than once when trying to entice men into bed. Many times, when a guy is fucking me, I like to ask them how much they like my pussy, while reassuring them I love the feeling they are instilling in me as they  pound me (in between grunts of pleasure).

When not actively getting fucked, and sometimes even taking raw loads, many sissies love to train their pussies to take larger and larger objects. At one point, mine was trained to take up to twelve inch dildoesand my partner and I were seriously starting talk about training my pussy to take their fist. We had already purchased heavy duty lubricant when real-world concerns intervened. If we had had time to achieve that goal, I am sure, double fisting and deeper fisting would have been the next on my anal training agenda.

As was, even after that all stopped, I took every opportunity I could to stuff things in my pussy: Sharpie markers, ice cubes, vegetables, and condoms I would fill and let freeze to make ice dildoes (really fun to insert completely and let it melt!). I once even bought a candy bar on the way home from work, found a quiet and dark spot, dropped my boi pants and shoved it up my ass. It felt wonderful and depraved, though I had quite the mess by the time I got back home. iIt was totally worth it.

And yes, I was intensely proud of how my pussy training was proceeding. To this day, I adore the feel of my hole being stretched. I have a butt plug I use quite a bit, along with a small collection of dildoes and vibrators, and am constantly on the lookout for fun objects I can shove up my pussy. 

And I never forget that I am a sissy, and sissies only serve onepurpose in this life: to have the tightest, deepest, and most skilled pussies or cunts possible. Real men deserve no less. 

Writing this blog has me all horny, so I think I am going to go break out my favorite dildo and work my favorite hole hard for awhile!

Until next time, Kisses, Kylie!

TOY TEST – Nisxiuer Vibrating Steel Butt Plug

June 11, 2023

Cold steel – one of my favorite things a toy can be made of. 🤤 Unrelenting, unbending.

Unboxing

One of the best things about this product is its weight. Unlike silicone plugs, you can really feel this weighing inside of you. It weighs 4.5 ounces, which may not seem like a lot, but when it is in you, that weight makes a difference.

I also like the different settings the motor has. There is a wide variety, although it could be a little stronger, but that’s just my opinion. To me, the motors should always be stronger. The controls are easy to use as they are right at the bottom of the base. It comes with a magnetic charger, which are not my favorites, but at least it is wireless.

It also has a remote control which seems to have a pretty good range. This makes partner play a lot more fun. It’s good for any gender too.

Overall a nice little toy. I give it 4.4 stars.

It can be found on Amazon here – https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BRXT2Q73?psc=1&ref=ppx_yo2ov_dt_b_product_details

The testing video will be live on my Pornhub https://www.pornhub.com/model/morgan-destera

TOY TEST – Pink Punch Sunset Mushroom Vibrator

May 25, 2023

This product was quite a bit better than the last Pink Punch toy I tried, but it still needs some work.

Again, it is a very aesthetically pleasing toy. It’s soft to the touch and comes in a case that also acts as a charger. The colors are fun, as is the shape/design of it. You really can’t go wrong if you’re looking for something to display. Pink Punch really is innovative with the look of their toys. The packaging is engaging and yet discreet, and comes with a nice overlay that can be removed to just have the art to display.

But again, function is something they really need to work on more.

The size and shape of this toy is great. I liked holding it as it fir in my palm nicely hand has a soft touch skin. I liked the shape as it really could be pinpointed to a certain area like your clit or anus. It also has a cute little lanyard that can be attached and removed so you don’t lose it in bed (or inside you).

However, again, the motor is lacking in power. It just isn’t strong enough to really get me off. Another disadvantage was the control button. It is in a very awkward spot on the end of the stem and is adjacent to – and right up against – the fin made to attach the lanyard to. This makes turning power on and off, and circling through the settings, hard to do. The button is also very stiff and my thumb ached trying to push it hard enough to try every sequence.

But it is a decent toy and one I’m sure a lot of people will enjoy. I will use it again, but it is not one of my go-to implements. Pink Punch needs to really work on functionality over design as ultimately that’s what people want more. Make the motor a bit better and design it so that the controls are easier to access and use.

Pink Punch, I am available for consultation at any point during the design process. 😉

You can view the full test video on my Pornhub channel – https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=644c40556945d

You can purchase the Sunset Mushroom here – https://www.pinkpunch.com/products/pinkpunch-sunset-mashroom-vibrator Use promo code DESTERA at check-out for extra savings!

GUEST BLOG – Kylie LuverGurl’s Kinky Commentary part one

May 10, 2023

I’ve known Kylie for close to forty years ever since we met in college. We became friends before reconnecting over social media last year. Now she is going through her life’s journey like I did about eight years ago – becoming her truer and happier (if somewhat kinky and sex-crazed) authentic self.

(CW/TW – transgender)

Nudity, Nakedness, and My Love of Gay Sex

More than being fully nude, there is an intrinsically sexual aspect to partial nudity. This is in part the appeal of lingerie, where the general rule is the skimpier the better (and the more expensive). By logical extension, clothing that leaves the genitals of the wearer exposed is an improvement over even the most revealing lingerie. 

For example, as I write this article, I am only wearing a normal length shirt (that only comes to about my waist). Being clothed from the waist up makes me more aware of the fact that I am nude below that. That I am wearing a cock ring and have a butt plug inserted in what I like to refer to as “my pussi” only enhances that awareness; I can intensely feel the fabric of my chair against my bare buttocks and my balls every time I shift in my seat. Likewise, I can feel every breeze of either the heat or air conditioning on my cock, and it helps keep my libido turbo-charged.

At a point in time not too long ago, I dressed normally all the time,even though I work from home, and wore normal sweats to sleep in. I will not go into the events that forced a shift in my mindset; suffice it to say that it was first mind-shatteringly horrifying and then liberating. 

The first thing to go was my underwear. I know that freeballing is popular among guys, but it was not something I had often done before now. But recently, left to my own devices, I started to spend almost all my time in my sleepwear. After all, my job is results oriented and my employers almost never interact with me other than via email. The next change of attire was to begin wearing just an oversized and ridiculously comfortable sleep shirt to wear almost constantly. Given its length, losing the sleep pants was both swift and inevitable.  

Other than a few hours every week, I have not worn underwear since December (it is now early May). Around the house, I never wear pants; preferring to go naked below the waist; this either coincided or help exacerbate a surge in my libido. In those months, I have cruised the internet almost incessantly (I won’t name the accrual website but it is similar in purpose to Grindr) looking and finding other men to hook up with, usually meeting at least one guy a week, and multiple men a few weeks. In most cases, they come to my house. If the hookup is after 5:00, I usually skip putting on more than sweat pants and a loose shirt, since we plan on getting naked as quickly as possible. With a few repeats and well after hours, I simply crack the door open, go into the bedroom, and am already naked and playing with myself when they arrive.

I mean, why not? We’re not looking for romance or a date; we are two men who want to have unabashed gay sex. But to get back on topic: even after I have been fucked so thoroughly I can barely walk (and that has happened), I still only throw my shirt back on, and luxuriate in the afterglow of the act… and am usually immediately cruising for more fun. 

Would I be so obsessed if I dressed in a normal fashion and were not always being reminded that I have a cock, balls, and a pussi? Possibly not, but being perpetually semi-naked keeps me revved up for sex: either with a partner or solo. 

Being naked and free is the natural state for human beings; being clothed and repressed is anything but natural, or healthy. Embracing a state of constant semi-nakedness has allowed me to express and accept, happily, that I am at heart a cock-hungry homosexual slut.

And what is more important than happiness and self-acceptance? 

Right now, I am going to finish this article and get dressed to go for a walk. No, I will not be putting on underwear; yes, I will be leaving the butt-plug in my pussi, and yes, as soon as I get home, I will be stripping back down to nothing but my sleep shirt. Because that is even more erotic to me than simply stripping until I am fully naked.

Until next time, Kisses, Kylie!

TOY TEST – Sohimi Bendable G-Spot Vibrator

May 1, 2023

It is kind of appropriate that I write 5his review in May 1st because this toy made me call out “MAY DAY” is surrender. 🤤

Okay, so maybe not that drastic, but this toy is seriously fun and effective.

The length and shape of this toy makes insertion uncomplicated and the bend makes it easy to find that elusive G-Spot. It has 10 different modes to satisfy any personality. The control button is easily accessible also, being on the very end of the toy itself.

Because of its length, it can be inserted deeply, anally or vaginally. This is a great toy for anal because it does not have a huge girth but still has the power to be felt. Guys can use it to find their prostate fairly easily.

You can see how much I liked it

Overall I rate this toy a 4.7 out of 5 stars. It is versatile and comfortable. It is also easy to clean, being made of silicone, and comes with a concealing bag for storage. The push-pin wire also makes it a breeze to charge.

You can purchase the item here – https://www.sohimi.com/products/g-spot-vibrator-elf?_pos=34&_sid=ca936c831&_ss=r – be sure to use promo code DESTERA at checkout for extra savings!

You can view my full test on my Pornhub here – https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=6439ae595a90f

TOY TEST – PinkPunch PEACHU Clit Sucker

April 2, 2023

I was very impressed when I got this toy in the mail. The colors on the box were beautiful. There was a slipcase on top of the box itself which added extra graphics. Even the feel of the case was pleasing. I opened the box to reveal a nicely segmented package. As I started to remove everything, I was struck by how well designed this item was. I couldn’t wait to try it out!

However, my love affair was short lived.

It’s a gorgeous toy, don’t get me wrong. It’s soft like the fruit it resembles and the team certainly took its time making sure every detail was correct. I love touching it. And the dome feature for re-charging is absolutely innovative! It consists of magnetic charger, which I usually do not like, but this is designed so the toy sits in a molded space just for it and the dome is plugged to the outlet, not the toy itself. It’s a great idea, but one that takes up a lot of space on the counter.

As stated I do like the look and feel of this toy, but once I started using it, my enthusiasm waned. It is very cumbersome to hold. It is hard to grip, and seemed hard to hold in one position. It was even harder to find the sucker’s opening and attach it to the right spot of my body.

Even worse, the motor is totally inaccurate for the size toy that it is. As large as this peach is – and it is hard to hold in my hand and use the buttons as well, it could definitely have a bigger motor. It did not have enough power to suck hard and did not stay on my clit. The shape also made it hard to find my clit.

This may be a good toy for beginners, but it barely got me excited, much less got me off in any way. The control button is located on the bottom of the toy and is in a very awkward spot. There are also just not enough variations in pattern or strength to make it a good toy for me.

I give this toy a 2 out of 5 stars. I love the charging station, despite its dimensions, and I love the look and touch, but it is really lacking in power and variety. I really wish some company would allow me to test these toys BEFORE they market them so maybe I could help them produce satisfactory products.

You can purchase PEACHU here –https://www.pinkpunch.com/collections/frontpage/products/pink-punch-peachu-sucking-vibrator. Use promo code DESTERA at checkout to save 30%!

Review video can be found on my Pornhub –https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=64263e98e0f84