The Loss of My Nipple Rings

November 10, 2024

As you may notice in my next photos and videos that both of my nipple rings are now gone. If you remember my last full blog post, I mentioned how my right nipple was sore and had a lump next to it after some very rough play the last time I met up with my MM. I did consult with my piercer and she suggested I try to used titanium jewelry to help heal it back up. I did buy some and use them, but my nipple was not getting any better. I did soak it also with saline. After another consultation, we decided that I should just take it out. This was the same nipple that totally ripped out after I got it done the first time so this was already compromised.

So I decided that since I was only having one nipple ring that I should make it a good one. I wanted something bold and something that really fit my personality. I didn’t want just a little jewel or something. On hindsight, I should’ve kept in what I had because it did fit my personality. It was a skull head. But after several days of looking and being frustrated, I couldn’t find what I wanted. I finally made a choice.

I really like the blood drip effect. I was a little scared that the drips would break off, however.

So I put it in and it looked really good. However, I noticed that it was starting to bleed for real around the holes and crust over. It wasn’t much but as I kept an eye on it, I then noticed that my skin was starting to split, and the jewelry was starting to reject. So I took it out. My nipple looked like it was almost split in two. I was highly disappointed, but it seems that it was just a little too small for what I wanted to use it for.

So I have no nipple jewelry and I really liked my nipple jewelry. I hope the future at least get one pierced. I don’t know if the right one will take another piercing since it’s already been done twice, but I would still like to get my one done if I can.

So let this be a precaution to you. Make sure your jewelry is the right size when you go to use it. Take good care of it. Keep it clean and use saline washes.

Cliteracy

November 2, 2024

The Penis and the Clitoris side by side. Yeah, not so different. The clitoris and penis develop from the same fetal tissue. The clit has as much erectile tissue as the penis and becomes engorged when properly aroused. Just as the penis is the center of orgasmic pleasure for males, the clit is the center of orgasmic pleasure for females.

However, unlike the penis, a womens main pleasure organ is often neglected.

Can you imagine if during sex your penis was mostly ignored, or all the focused was on the head? What about if you were expected to have sex when your penis wasn’t even erect?

This is the material reality for many women.

So lets really integrate and honor this information! Once we do it will shift the way we have sex and look at female pleasure. 🤗

Explore. Be part of the change!

Embrace Cliteracy

  • Remember, the clit hugs the vagina. The vagina itself is a birthing canal with limited nerve endings. The vagina innervates the clit.*

-Your Friendly Neighborhood Sex Educator

TOY TEST – Funzze Black Fantasy Dildo

October 28, 2024

Don’t be put off by its monster-like appearance, as looks can be deceiving. This “monster” toy is very suitable for beginners with its modest 7.5 inch insertable length and average width. It’s got some good weight to it to, weighing in at over 12 ounces.

I decided to try this piece anally since I do have a foreshortened pussy due to hysterectomy. This dildo total length of 9 inches and insertable length of 7.5 inches. The head of this fantastic monster is only 1 inch, which is very easy to insert even for beginners. The length was no problem for me anally. I do wish it was a little bit stiffer as I fumbled a bit getting it inserted. (To make the insertion smoother, I recommend using a water-based lubricant.)

This monster-style toy features a scale-like texture right down the shaft, causing intense stimulation during use. It also features ridges and dots on its surface, providing additional texture and dimension. Its insertion into the vagina promises a heightened level of pleasure and excitement during your masturbation experience.

Crafted from premium quality, ultra-soft silicone material, this dildo offers an incredibly comfortable and realistic experience, while also being easy to clean. This makes it an excellent option for individuals with sensitive skin or allergies. Its hypoallergenic and body-safe properties make it suitable for vaginal or anal stimulation. The website mentions oral play also, but I find it hard to use any silicone or rubbery toy in my mouth.

Featuring a reliable suction base, rest assured that this dildo will remain securely attached, ensuring uninterrupted pleasure. Transform your shower, mirror, balcony, or even your office into a realm of delightful sensations. The Funzze silicone dildo effortlessly adheres to any smooth surface, enabling mind-blowing orgasms even in unexpected locations.

I rate this toy a good 3.5 out of 5. It could be a bit firmer, but the suction cup is one of the stronger ones I’ve used so it stayed in place while inserting and playing. The scales and texture was a pleasant surprise that I quite liked. 

You can purchase the dildo here – https://funzze.com/products/black-fantasy-dildo

9" Black Fantasy Dildo

You can see video of my toy test here –  https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=671ae33cbf979

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Updates

October 14, 2024

This last 5-6 weeks has been pretty busy.

I met up with MM in early September, right after Labor Day. That was very intense. He had a free sample of “the little blue pill“ and by the time we finish the first round, it had kicked in. Holy crap! I didn’t think it would end – not that I wanted it to. I think I came very close to actually being totally spent. My ass was certainly sore, and loosened up. I’m pretty sure he was empty too. There are some great videos on my Pornhub about this meet up. Unfortunately, there were some that Pornhub would not allow me to upload because of “bodily fluids”.

Damn I miss him.

I did have kind of a short little breakdown afterwards because he barely talked to me for like two weeks right after this and the timing made me very suspect; when I don’t get a dick pic from him for two weeks it’s concerning. But I finally emailed him directly and he wrote back almost immediately saying things were fine. But my brain just was crazy at that point and I don’t know why. I think I was afraid that I had gone too far during this meet up or possibly he got caught, but everything is fine. We would have met up this coming week, but hotel rooms are insanely high due to a convention in town.

And a couple weeks ago, Hurricane Helene hit South Carolina, right where my son lives. His town got hit by the eye wall. He was without power and without Internet. After several days, he contacted me and I could hear the panic in his voice so I drove down about 13 hours to bring him supplies. It was odd driving because going through some of the states they were signs saying “travel to Tennessee is prohibited” and “access to North Carolina is not recommended.” One of the roads I usually take to go down there was totally washed out so I had to take a different route than I normally do. The artist part of all is that I really saw no damage until I get right up to his neighborhood. Lots and lots of trees down. It was worse right around the corner from him where there were still wires on the roads.

Because there was no power when I was down there I brought him back up here with me. He stayed for a few days. During that time we managed to spread his dad’s ashes. Which is something I wanted him to be around for. It was a relief to do so, even though I was plagued by guilt when we started. The guilt did dissipate quickly and now I just feel glad that that’s over.

The following week I was just busy trying to catch up on everything. I had a lot of appointments that kept me hopping. I just felt totally exhausted. Bone deep exhaustion. I’m finally starting to feel a little bit better today, but we my brother and my brother-in-law are going to the amusement park this weekend for Halloween weekends. This is my favorite time of year, so I’m going to take advantage of it.

So please feel free to go. Check out the videos from my meet up with my guy. Can’t wait to get together with him again!

https://www.pornhub.com/model/morgan-destera

TOY TEST – Funzze Vibrating Nipple Suckers

September 29, 2024

Love nipple play? This may be the perfect nipple toy!

Crafted from silky body-safe silicone, these vibrating breast suckers are designed to envelop both the breast and nipple for complete coverage and enhanced pleasure. The suction creates a vacuum that boosts sensitivity, making the vibrations and teasing tassels inside the cups more stimulating. Use the remote control to choose your favorite titty vibe from 10 vibration patterns of the nipple stimulator. Waterproof and body-safe, these breast suckers free up your hands for more exploration!

  • Enjoy freedom from cords or wires with easy magnetic charging.
  • Crafted from soft, skin-friendly silicone for a comfortable fit.
  • Select from 10 different vibration modes to suit your preferences.
  • Easily adjust settings with the convenient two-button remote control.
  • Large suction cups for powerful and enhanced stimulation.

My nipples are usually very sensitive. In fact this last time when I met up with my guy, they were very swollen and painful afterwards for days. Of his toy is not as good as having a skilled lover, it is an interesting sensation. I was pleased to see that these are larger sized cups, so I will fit a variety of different breast sizes. They do have bristles inside that tickle the sensitive tissue and can be very arousing.

My wish for this toy would be that it would be again more powerful. I did enjoy it, but there needs to be another level or two of motion. Also this would be a fantastic toy. It also housed a more direct sucker toy that latched onto you as well. You might not ever be able to peel them from me if this becomes a reality.

I rate this a solid 3.5 on a scale of 1 to 5. (I’m trying to be better at my ratings. It seems all my ratings are in the high 4-5 range which is truthfully very unlikely. So this toy is well above average. Average would be 2.5)

You can purchase the toy here – https://funzze.com/products/vibrating-nipple-suckers

You can view my complete toy test including unboxing here – https://www.pornhub.com/interstitial?viewkey=66f8a934a7883

Maybe Figured Something Out

August 29, 2024

I think my MM and a I have discovered a way to get together maybe a bit more frequently 

I am going to see him next week, which is highly unusual since I just saw him last month. But I think we’ve figured something out

He often spends the night in the city due to his work schedule. Sometimes he eorks late and then has to be back to work the next morning at 8 AM or so. This is kind of what happened last time I saw him, but he had the added ability that he took Saturday off also.

Next week he is staying in the city for two nights in a row due to having to be to work early the next day. He told me that I kind of said that’s very tempting. He said well I wouldn’t kick you out my bed if you showed up. So we came up with the idea, even though he has to work I can still come in and see him overnight and hang out doing whatever I wanted during the day.

So maybe this will be a solution that we will be able to get to see each other a little little more often. If I’m going into the city, I take the train so I don’t have to deal with traffic. I had a voucher from my last trip since it was delayed so long. The train station is only like 15 minute walk from the hotel, I usually catch a cab simply because I have a lot of luggage. This trip I’m not going to bring a lot with me. 

Crossing my fingers at this works out well and he doesn’t get too exhausted. And we can do this more frequently.