Welcome to ELust 152

Congratulations to The Barefoot Sub for winning the monthly Elust Contest for June! 

Hope you enjoy your £50 Etsy voucher for The Kinky Emporium.

Everyone with a post included here in Elust 152 now has a chance to win the top spot in Elust 153 and a gift voucher of your choice to buy something sexy.

The voucher will be for £50GBP or whatever that converts to in your currency.

The winner can choose any voucher from a reputable site that has gift vouchers I can buy and send by email.

The winner will be the first person to score 5 out of 5.

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Body Talk and Sexual Health

Hard To Come By- Barefoot’s Orgasm Journey – an insightful read

Gauging up – My VCH and labia rings are at 10g. I want to get to 8. I can’t imagine anything beyond that, just for the shape and comfort.

Sex Work

La Belle Horizontale – ah, Paris!

Foxy Couple – I sent this on to my son, who is in the furry community. He approves.

Birthday Gangbang – Birthdays are made to be enjoyed.

I love Roleplay – Be anyone you want to be.

Erotic Fiction

Stolen Love from Russia – From Russia with Live

Moon Feather: Part 48: Terms and Conditions – A continuation.

Strangers in a Bar – Nothing better than that!

Bedroom Eyes 7 – A great read!

Tossing His Caber – Highland Spanking Romance – Scottish spanking

Erotic Non Fiction

Teaching Tommy – Educational

Product Reviews

TOY TEST – Nosakki Clitoral Stimulator with Thrusting Bullet Vibrator – You read it here first

13 Best Fun Factory Sex Toys (& 5 I dislike) – A nice comparison.

Books, TV and Movies

Review of Netflix show How to Build a Sex Room – I love this show!

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Betty’s Guide to Building Your Own Sex Room – Good ideas for doing it in your own.

All in the contract – A look at s/D contracts.

Living Rent Free in my Head – Is punishment severe, or are you overthinking?

Writing about writing

Sex, Strawberries and Cream – How much plot is too much?

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TOY TEST – Luminous Glow-In-The-Dark Sea Monster Tentacle Silicone Dildo by Big Shocked

August 14, 2022

I really want to make the joke “I’ve seen enough hentai to know where this is going,” but I must admit, this item intimidated me at first. Not just by its size, but by the texture. The suckers on the underside of this wavy tentacle made me ponder how it would slide in, and worse, how —- and if — it would come out. I only fretted that somehow those suction cups would adhere to me and rip me up.

But I am having some issues emotionally right now and that was merely my anxiety trying to mess with me. This dildo is actually one of the best toys I have tried, and probably my number one anal plaything.

What sets this apart from other anal plugs and dildos is the very small tip which then slowly tapers instead of just suddenly being full. The tip fits into the anus perfectly and allows one to slowly work all the way down to whatever level you feel comfortable. I was able to insert most of it with no problem and although I still felt the effects an hour or so later, it was not pain but instead a nice stretch. That is exactly the sensation I seek when using anal plugs.

It’s dimensions are stunning with a total length of 9.25 inch, 8.4” of which are insertable. The head/tip diameter is a mere 0.8 inch which really helps with insertion. This slowly flares to a mud-shaft diameter of 2.36 inches. At its base, the diameter is a good 2.6 inches.

The curve to this dildo is another fun feature. It is designed like this to hit your prostate and hopefully give the kind of orgasm we all dream of. I found the shape to be exciting on its own and I could definitely feel the difference compared to regular non-curved toys.

The website says that this is a “soft” firmness but I feel it is more medium. Usually I have a problem with soft toys being unable to stand up to the pressure placed upon them while being inserted. I had no such problems with this and it held firm admirably. The texture of the suckers, which I worried about, instead turned into a pleasure of bumps and consistency which really enhanced the whole experience.

I give this toy a rare 5-out-of-5 rating! This is definitely going into my regular rotation of toys and I will be recommending it to people who ask me for advice on which toy to start with. The small tip makes it easy for beginners as well as advanced toy users.

You can purchase the toy here: https://bigshocked.com/yai2119-529.html – note that it does come in other colors. Pictured here is the glow-in-the-dark platinum version. Don’t forget to use promo code DESTERA for 20% off!

Video of my test of this toy is available on my Pornhub – https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph62f2d98cd9d5e

Wholesale Sex Toys – Wholesale Adult Toys

August 12, 2022

(Sponsored) One of the most annoying things about sex toys is the cost, especially from some of the bigger names in the business. They may offer a one-time promo to lure you in, but there,so always a catch. At one major retailer, the discount is only good on one item. And not every item in their inventory is eligible for the sale. It becomes more of a pain (in the frustrating way) rather than a pleasure looking for the right toy at the right price.

SexToySupply.com is an answer to that problem. This site is virtually a wholesale toy site with a huge inventory. There are items here that I have only found on some of the more obscure sites.

One thing I really like about the site is not only do they tell you have many items are in each category, they also tell you how many of each item is left in stock! It also tells you right away if an item is sold out so you do not have to click through only to find out an item is unavailable.

At the moment, there are 113 items for sale under the “Vibrator” category, 83 items under “Dildo”, 85 “Anal Toys”, 60 “Bondage” items, 109 “Male Toys”, 64 pieces of female and male “Lingerie”, and 93 “Other” products which include Ben Wa Balls, strap-ons, clitoral stimulators, and more. There are also sub-categories under each heading to help you find what you are looking for easier. There is also a large Clearance section that offers up to 70% off!

Since this is a warehouse, they offer 2-6 day delivery time to households in the United States. They do offer shipping to over 200 countries worldwide. While there is no minimum order, they do also offer bulk sales if you are looking to add some spicy items to your own shop.

I was also very pleased to see that they accept PayPal so no credit card information is kept by them. This also helps keep your purchase more discreet. They offer 24/7 customer help with orders online and have a seven-day Satisfaction Guarantee!

I have been very pleased with the service from this company! I have found some jewels. My favorite novelty item has been the Duckling Clitoral Sucker. It is very cute and can left out in the open with few people realizing what exactly it is.

Please visit wholesale sex toys to check out what they have to offer! Inventory changes quite often! You never know what you might find!

Starting my Amazon Affiliate Store

August 9, 2022

In order to help facilitate my readers to creating the kind of atmosphere they may like for their bedroom, boudoir, sex room, or relaxation area, I have decided to create an Amazon Affiliate Store where I can share items I find which I think may be of interest to them. This shop will NOT feature toys, as all of my reviews offer links as to where to purchase them. Instead I hope to feature wall hangings, decor, accessories, and other items such as books and guides. Some may be risqué, some more vanilla. I will link 3-5 items in my blog here every other week or so. I hope you’ll find these items helpful and intriguing. (Please click the links, not the photos, thank you.)

I also want this to be a site for those of us on a budget, so all items will be under $35.

Kama Sutra Ignite Massage Candle – Vanilla/Sandalwood: https://amzn.to/3vOe5Gn

Phantoscope Pack of 2 Faux Fur Throw Pillow Covers Cushion Covers Luxury Soft Decorative Pillowcase Fuzzy Pillow Covers for Bed/Couch,White 18 x 18 Inches: https://amzn.to/3A7B16i

Kinbaku – The Art of Rope Bondage (hardback): https://amzn.to/3BWiT0A

3 Pcs Framed Sexy Nude Art Wall Art Couple Sex Artwork Abstract Creative Nude Girl and Boy Make Love Wall Decoration Pictures HD Print Sexy Wall Art for Bedroom Wall Decor Ready to Hang-12″Wx16″H: https://amzn.to/3dlbiOz

LONDGEN 10PCS Ostrich Feather 12-14 inch(30-35cm) Plumes for Party Wedding Centerpiece Festival Vases Decoration (many colors available): https://amzn.to/3A7O5sk

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Bittersweet Vacation

July 31, 2022

Overall It was a great trip! I am so glad I made this trip. And I’m glad I did it alone that I didn’t have to worry about somebody else’s agenda. I got so much done. I kept myself busy doing stuff and do not regret it at all!

However, I don’t know where things are going with my MM and I. The very first night we were going to meet up but I actually told him not to because I was totally exhausted and dehydrated. I walked like 15 blocks with 75 pounds of luggage in 100° heat and I about died literally. I took all evening to just cool down and rehydrate. And it turned out that was good because he would’ve missed his last train because it was canceled had he stayed.

Sunday he came and saw me and unfortunately his mind was totally elsewhere. He is moving houses this week coming up and he has been trying to fix up his new house to make it livable. And I could just see the way his mind was working even though he wasn’t saying anything. I knew he was thinking more about the house. So after we had sex we laid down for an hour or so and I could just tell he was not in the mood. So I told him to just go home and work on the house. I know the way his mind works and I would rather have him be 100% present. There’s plenty for me to do there so I went to a museum that afternoon instead of waiting like I would have. At least I got to see him.

Then that night he messaged me and apologizes for “flaking out”. And he basically also admitted that the other times I have come to see him he has flaked out, which I kind of suspected.

He says he feels bad and he was actually trying to figure out why he didn’t feel like having sex a second time. And also that he feels he is changing that he doesn’t even really like physical contact anymore and definitely does not want dirty stuff right now. I told him that’s perfectly fine. Sometimes the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak. I also suspect some Covid trauma. He moved halfway across country in the middle of it for a job he wasn’t sure he’d have. Plus he didn’t even hardly talk to me for 10 months during that. So I can see not wanting to be touched  as part of this. And didn’t want to make messes (probably because there’re  so many messes he’s trying to clean up right now). Plus he has a million different things going on at present, both with 2 houses and work. I tried to reassure him, but truthfully I don’t know if we’ll ever get together again. We both do definitely want to keep up the cybersex. I am planning a trip near there in October for “business purposes” so I hope to see him then, maybe. I think if I go visit him, I have to have a reason beyond just seeing him. Plus I told him we can always re-evaluate. And I re-iterated that if he ever wants to break up, to please let me know and not just disappear.

So I am trying to back off a bit. Hopefully things will smooth out once he gets moved and the other house sold.

I am horribly sad but not devastated. I guess that means something. I don’t feel it is 100% over.

BREAKING NEWS – MILFcast Approved for Exxxotica!

July 20, 2022

Yes, I have been approved to cover the Exxxotica convention in Edison, NJ, October October 21-23!

If you are unfamiliar with Exxxotica, check out their website here: https://exxxoticaexpo.com/

I hope to interview some porn professionals as well as peruse new toys and items on the market. I will also be taking photos which will appear here on my blog!

Keep an eye out for updates as plans solidify!