Author Archives: morgandestera

Sunday July 3, 2016 I’ve been quiet for a few days since MM was home with family for a bit. But he messaged me as soon as he got to his hometown airport, and in the cab to the hotel, and for a couple of hours after he checked in. It lets me know heContinue reading “Transfer Post – He’s Back”

June 25, 2016 He did send me a photo yesterday, but for some reason my notification dinger didn’t go off so it was a couple of hours until I found it and by then he was at work. (Sigh) That’s the first one he’s sent since this all happened. He looks good in it –Continue reading “Transfer Post – Quick Update”

June 23, 2016 I am getting worried about my MM. I did get to talk with him briefly, but I could tell he is just not the same. The fun-loving man is gone. I know coping with the loss of his friend is horrible. I am giving him time and space. But my own thoughtsContinue reading “Transfer Post – A Week Later”

June 17, 2016 Just so you know, my MM wrote me from work. He’s having a bad week – he’s been busy plus one of his dearest friends committed suicide. But he wanted me to know he hasn’t forgotten me. I wish I could be there for him. But i let him know he isContinue reading “Transfer Post – MM Update”

Not really a sex toy. This is what my MM got for me for my birthday in 2017. FIRST: DO NOT BELIEVE GWENETH PALTROW AND HER “GOOP” BRAND. DO NOT USE JADE OR MINERAL/ROCK BASED BALLS! Minerals and rocks are for the most part porous and cannot be cleaned thoroughly. This can led to infectionsContinue reading “TMI – Ben-Wa Balls”

What People Don’t Understand.. #1 – Binder & Binder are NOT attorneys. They are “advocates”. #2 – Social Security is nothing but a waiting game. They are understaffed and underfunded. It is not that the lawyer/representative is not doing anything, it is that your file is at the SSA in a pile and will notContinue reading “A little off topic – Social Security Disability Cases”

‪Just submitted Mediplex #6 for publication! Let’s see if #Kindle #censors this one. I know @LotsCave will have my back <3‬

HALLELUJAH! I am healed! The internal sutures have not all dissolved, but the dr. I am healed. I go back in mid-April to make sure they are dissolved. If not, she will remove them. They will not interfere with sex, even if we might feel them. But I have to take it easy with penetrationContinue reading “Healed”

June 15, 2016 I am writing break-up letters to you in my mind. You haven’t done anything wrong. I don’t want this to end. But I feel depression creeping in. I was so excited last week… we were finally going to get together again. It was so close – I could feel it! Then, justContinue reading “Transfer Post – Letter I Will Never Send”

“Love is love is love is love is love is love is love is love and love cannot be killed or swept aside — Lin Manuel Miranda (2016 Tony Awards)