Question

August 2, 2019

What do you think.

1. If you cheated on a partner, would you tell them?

2. If you were cheated on, would you want to know?

 

Answer:

I am single, but living with my ex-husband (caregiver). I have a BF who is married. I am not cheating on my ex (though he would think I am). And I’ve known since Day One that my BF is married. Do I want his wife to know? No. Do I want to know if he is with someone else? No.

It took me awhile to get to the point where I can say no, I don’t want to know. But it’s his life. He is under no obligation to me, though he does to his wife. First day I met him, he was later going to get a BJ from another woman. But I had JUST met him, so none of my business.

But he did tell me. And I think he would tell me if he did meet someone else. He does tell me when he sees his wife (he is on the road a lot for business and is not living at home most of the time, though family visits him every few weeks)