Sunday July 3, 2016
I’ve been quiet for a few days since MM was home with family for a bit. But he messaged me as soon as he got to his hometown airport, and in the cab to the hotel, and for a couple of hours after he checked in. It lets me know he missed me and I was right to give him some space.
He started complaining about his wife. I never know what to say. I do not want to put any pressure on him at all. But it hurts to see him in pain. And it makes me wonder what is really going through his mind. When she sits out of a family excursion when they don’t get a lot of family time together, it says something.
I can’t overthink this.
But I did email him this morning, a couple of days after that conversation, to let him know some thoughts. I said I am really the last one who should comment on the situation. I tried to keep my own feelings out of it, to look at things objectively, and told him they really need to talk and see if they can compromise. They are both hurting. And it hurts me to see him like that. And that he trusts me to tell me.
Morgan Destera 